G'day Kerri, I have just been reading all the comments and discussion on the special needs page. I don't know too much about the subject,but two things I do know, one, ,is that God only gives kids with special needs to special parents, He does not give them to just anyone. The other thing is ,that people are too quick to judge these days.If they took the time to look past the disability,and see the person, they would be surprised what a beautiful person is there.I know a family with a Down Syndrome little girl and she is the most georgeous little button you can imagine. You and parents like you all over the world have my utmost admiration. You really are special parents, Kerri.God bless you and your family.