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Single, and love it? Single, and dread it? Doesn't matter--YOU'RE SINGLE, so this is your place to meet other singles!!

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Where do you find a good christian man?

Started by Angela Coleen LaPat. Last reply by Angela Coleen LaPat May 9. 6 Replies

I am the end of my rope trying to find a good Christian man.  Some men think woman can be controlled and be property to them.  They think submit to means to have total controll and possion.  Wives…Continue

Single Christian Men Vs. Women

Started by LD. Last reply by Bill Cochran Apr 8. 3 Replies

I heard a statistic that stated, for every single Christian man, there are 7 single Christian women. I think that remains true. Even looking at this website, there are more women than men. This is…Continue

Making a list of what one wants to find in that one special person in a relationship

Started by teresa. Last reply by Dona C Collins Apr 3. 5 Replies

I have dated on and off for the last few years... and came across a few people who had decided to make a list of the important things that they would like to find in a mate... I thought this was…Continue

Who Likes Being Single?

Started by Jessica. Last reply by Ralph Pierce Sullivan III Mar 27. 40 Replies

Let's face it, it's a hard world to be single in! I find myself rolling my eyes when I hear people say they like being single. Usually these are the people who are single for about 5 minutes before…Continue

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Comment by Sarah Graeber on March 27, 2013 at 8:49am
I'm single. So text me 971 207 1803 (ONLY IF YOU LIVE IN OREGON).
Comment by Tina Sabatino on March 18, 2013 at 1:38pm
Sounds intriguing Adam, thank you for sharing! This presents some very valid points we will all do well to consider....
Comment by Bray'lee on March 18, 2013 at 1:17pm

Adam, This is very interesting and could make sense. Has anyone read the book, Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers? This is how God loves us and how we should love others.

 

Comment by Adam on March 17, 2013 at 3:30pm

"Scripture shows that while God graciously guides our decisions, he seldom eliminates the need for us to think them through and ultimately take responsibility for resolving them.  Yet many Christians expect him to guide in a mystical or supernatural fashion which would supersede this process and remove all personal responsibility."

"It is hard to grow up in American society and not have your perspective on love and romance shaped more by myth than reality."

These quotes are from M. Blaine Smith's book, Should I Get Married?

For me, this book was a breath of fresh air.  It is not the typical yada yada.  Originally published in 1990, a revised version was printed in 2000.   I recommend this resource both for those who are single and never married or those divorced; he even touches on a call to singleness.  M. B. Smith not only talks about systematically discerning whether a particular person is a good match for you, he also discusses what may be preventing us from finding a suitable match.  I feel many of us have sabotaged our own success - in many ways I have.  He shares his personal story as well as stories of those he has counseled as an associate pastor.

I hope it will be helpful to you all.

Comment by David Pon on March 14, 2013 at 1:31pm

There are some days when I have doubt in my heart or head. I feel like finding someone is an up hill battle. My friends , God bless them , keep giving me advice on how to find someone. But to be completley honest I am kind of shy when it comes to approaching someone. I hate this lonley feeling but I don't want to sound like I am belly aching over the whole thing. I know God loves us all and he has a plan for all of us. I believe there is definetly someone out there for all of us , we just have to keep our faith and move forward. The right one is out there we just have to "try" lol and be patient. 

Comment by Rebecca Peoples on February 21, 2013 at 12:59pm
Single and seeking and waiting for The Lord to bring the man he has for me. Struggling with waiting. Could use some words of encouragement. Thank you
Comment by Shelly on December 2, 2012 at 11:17am
Hi new to this group and keep the faith, just browsing. I am single with a 17 yr old son who doesn't wanna spend much time with MOM lol wondering if I'll ever be found by a true man again. I've tried dateing sites mostely spam wanting money or they don't have jobs etc... I pray I will find someone as holidays are the hardest. I'm also an only child as wellas my son. Pray that my wish will come true. Thanks for having me here. Lonely in ft wayne ind.
Comment by lynn Beytien on October 9, 2012 at 11:12pm

Is anyone out there that is not looking, but is JUST single. I am 63 , and single never married. I have thought about it, but it just hasnt been god's plan for me.I am an artist , and somewhat retired, and do wish for companionship, but wonder if I would feel crouded not having freedom to travel at the drop of a hat. Just belonging to a Mighty jesus , who is so all enencumpassingly attuned to what is best for us is pretty great. Sometimes wildlife, and being able to draw and wood burn it is great for me. Thanks for listening. Lynnie B

Comment by Bee on October 7, 2012 at 7:54pm

Since finding God again (he was with me all along) i have vowed just that. Its a vicious cycle with certain situations and then when you wake up the next day you are still alone. I choose to God first and that will always be from this day forward.

Comment by Jackline Munene on October 7, 2012 at 4:25pm

Jan that is a very good message, thanks for sharing

 

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