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Comment by Lisa Hershman on Tuesday

Hi!  My name is Lisa.   I am new here.  I wanted to say hi.  I am widowed. My Husband died 13 years ago.   Then I was in a long-term very abusive relationship.  I am looking for support and to make new friends.

Comment by Tobi Fields on May 23, 2012 at 6:58pm

It is a challenge being single, never married and not having children.  When you are with a group of people the conversation is about relationships, children, the stages of children, etc.  One has to stay on their mental toes to be a part of those conversations.  For me I am left clinging to my relationship with the Lord and reminding myself of how close He is to me and that I am never alone.  The holidays are getting better, when I was younger I had a difficult time.  I remember saying to myself next year that special someone will be in my life.  Now at 50 my goal is to be a better friend of the Lord.  The goal is to be a better person and get the focus off of belonging but being.  Being single is an opportunity to encourage yourself in your walk with the Lord.  And be comfortable with who God is recreating you to be.  Grow in God, if he unites you with someone great, if not great again.  I know that I am not half of anything but a whole person.  

Comment by David Pon on May 21, 2012 at 11:42am

Being single is one thing but to be single and find someone with the same spiritual beliefs is an other. God is a big part of my life and I know that he has a plan for me to meet someone special. Just have to be patient and the right one will come along.

Comment by Linda M. Johnson on May 11, 2012 at 9:57pm

The best movie on true love and commitment is the recent movie" the vow". If you haven't seen it - rent it - you won't be sorry!

Comment by Linda M. Johnson on May 11, 2012 at 9:32pm

I love that- if he doesn't care about your soul- he is not your "soul mate"! Thanks for sharing that Jeffrey!

Comment by Jeffrey Feeser on May 11, 2012 at 5:30pm

Comment by April S. on April 22, 2012 at 9:37pm

kiio mutua- thank you and i agree with what your saying as Christians we shouldn't judge others. we never know what the man's past is like, his childhood and family.

Comment by kiio mutua on April 22, 2012 at 4:55pm

I guess you are right in some ways but what if the guy didnt have the chance to go to school or had a hard life when growing up i dont judge people based on what career or job they are doing,maybe if you listen to their stories one might just be amazed at what they have gone through......its like you see someoone homeless and immediately most people assum that the person must be a drunken or is being just plain lazy.......why dont you get a job......arent we christians supposed to show love and compassion to the less fortunate,arent we to judge others for we shall to  be judged.......i have seen couples where the husband didnt do a good job not because he didnt want to but cause he couldnt just get it and today some of these couples are some of the happiest ever........ponder on that ladies.......April I think you got a good head on those shoulders......

Comment by April S. on April 22, 2012 at 4:33pm

To Kiio mutua- for some ladies it matters because to them if they have a good job it shows they want to do something big with their life that they can support a family. But if they say they flip burgers some ladies might think they don't take working seriously or have a real goal for themselves. For me I'm in the middle even though im a little too young to be thinking about what a guy will provide(im a still a teen) I want them to be a hardworker and be passionate about what they do but what job they have isn't necessarily going to be a dealbreaker for me unless it's a job that God wouldn't approve of.

Comment by kiio mutua on April 22, 2012 at 4:20pm

To all the ladies out there, do you think that the job of a man matters in deciding whether you go out with him or not or does he just need to have a job,i dont know cause i have been on one of the many websites and each time i tell them what kind of job am currently doing they all of a sudden lose interest......does it really matter if he is working in the corporate world or flipping burgers???

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