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Permalink Reply by Paul Samaniego on January 16, 2012 at 2:34am

Hay there brother, you are not an Eeyore, your just being real and truthful.

I am sure many are thinking the same. This is a case of what is human, but as Christians we are slowly dying to our appetites. The case is you and countless of other brothers and sisters are children of the KING, citizens of heaven. We may want the touch of another, some one with skin on and not realize that we are in need or really craving the touch of a perfect love from above. We were remade to help one another, bear each others burdens, pray for new appitites. Seasons like this are times that God uses to reveal the things that we need to have change in our life"s. Singleness although can be lonely at times, it is useful in redefining the road and actions we need to take towards recovery, "getting the house in order" sort of speak. Mean while stay busy in helping others, do something bigger than yourself, know that God has your best interest at hand, which is aligned with his perfect will. Continue to build character, strength and a history that a woman of God can be proud of. Remember it is not only that we find a partner but a partner that promotes the kingdom.

 

In Christ  

Permalink Reply by Angela Coleen LaPat on February 4, 2012 at 8:44pm

I know being single stinks.  Woman also have desires as well and it see different from me.  I recomend reading Every's Man Battle,  I am reading Every Womans Battle.  I was engaged with this man and just because he did not like me talking to other men, he gave me 30 to leave his house.  My son and I have been through this  nonsense before.  I come to realize this guy wants total controll of my life in every aspect.  He thinks submit means to tell him everyone I talk to and leave information out.  Then would call me on his lunch hour and expect me to waste my time when I could be searching for job or doing other things.  I have dated so many people.  Also this man has serious problem with me because my son and I stick together.  I can not dammage my son anymore because of men say that they are Christian and not.  I also think a relationship depends where you are on your walk with God.  I have had a very beaten path with men.  I think being on your own you do not feel controll or like someone possion.  I also learned in this book ther is a different intensity fades as newness wears off.  INTIMACY  CONTINUES TO BLOSSOM THE LONGER YOU KNOW A PERSON.  I also learned in this book that LOVE is commitment.  I am to the point of just wanting things to be just me and my son.  Too many people are jellious my son and I so close relationship.  I walk has been tough and I have pick myhself up time and time again.  Remember with God we have to trust him, and faith there is someone out there who will love us unconditionally and understand who we are has human beings.  We are who he made us be.  Also you know satan is in your relationship because the other person does not act in a Godly Christian way.

Permalink Reply by Ken Hirsch, Jr. on February 12, 2012 at 12:39pm

I like your reply. Thank you.

Paul Samaniego said:

Hay there brother, you are not an Eeyore, your just being real and truthful.

I am sure many are thinking the same. This is a case of what is human, but as Christians we are slowly dying to our appetites. The case is you and countless of other brothers and sisters are children of the KING, citizens of heaven. We may want the touch of another, some one with skin on and not realize that we are in need or really craving the touch of a perfect love from above. We were remade to help one another, bear each others burdens, pray for new appitites. Seasons like this are times that God uses to reveal the things that we need to have change in our life"s. Singleness although can be lonely at times, it is useful in redefining the road and actions we need to take towards recovery, "getting the house in order" sort of speak. Mean while stay busy in helping others, do something bigger than yourself, know that God has your best interest at hand, which is aligned with his perfect will. Continue to build character, strength and a history that a woman of God can be proud of. Remember it is not only that we find a partner but a partner that promotes the kingdom.

 

In Christ  

Permalink Reply by Matthew Mason on February 12, 2012 at 4:29pm

Personally, I find this post insulting.

 

Were we meant to be alone, as you seem to be implying?

 

"Oh, what you really need is the touch of God, not a woman's." That's what I am seeing.

 

Explain to me why God created Eve.

 

Moron. Don't ever talk to me again.

 

 

Paul Samaniego said:

Hay there brother, you are not an Eeyore, your just being real and truthful.

I am sure many are thinking the same. This is a case of what is human, but as Christians we are slowly dying to our appetites. The case is you and countless of other brothers and sisters are children of the KING, citizens of heaven. We may want the touch of another, some one with skin on and not realize that we are in need or really craving the touch of a perfect love from above. We were remade to help one another, bear each others burdens, pray for new appitites. Seasons like this are times that God uses to reveal the things that we need to have change in our life"s. Singleness although can be lonely at times, it is useful in redefining the road and actions we need to take towards recovery, "getting the house in order" sort of speak. Mean while stay busy in helping others, do something bigger than yourself, know that God has your best interest at hand, which is aligned with his perfect will. Continue to build character, strength and a history that a woman of God can be proud of. Remember it is not only that we find a partner but a partner that promotes the kingdom.

 

In Christ  

Permalink Reply by Paul Samaniego on February 12, 2012 at 11:09pm

Hay there brother! Please Please do not be insulted, It is not nor is it to be taken as such. But, really think about it!!!

First do not assume your self sounding as a an Eyore Christian, which i do not understand, I think it is a negative additive and you are not that! But as a christian man you are a child of the King a citizen of heaven. Now that is cool!!

True brother we were NOT made to be alone ! Through out the Bible it is all about relationship to God, loved ones ( Eve) and the lost, Romans 10:14.

It is lonely and really feels depressing and hurts at times , wanting a girl friend is really a nice thing, i agree. I was mainly wanting to help you find a woman that will last with you. Proverbs 31:30 

We as men must first be spiritual leaders, having a heart for Kingdom issues Psalm 100:2-3, thus, having our house in order serving others before our selves. Christian women want a man that has been prepared and can love them as Jesus loves his bride the church.

1 Corinthians 13:7 - Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance

beatlefan2007 be encouraged!!!

In Christ..