I do not like being singled were does a person find the right guy for them selfs I have been on so many dating sites and I have not found my mate yet and I have been divorce for 7 years and I'm getting frustrated because I'm having a hard time finding a mate for my self

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I understand how you feel.  I also have tried the single dating sites and had no luck.  I met a few men for coffee and didn't care for how they acted.  I even found one man who I saw  a few times but he cut off the relationship because he felt I was too demanding.  Really I'm not, he just couldn't commit to me!  Its only natural for a woman(me) to become suspicious when he didn't call or text for days and days, then finding out he went hunting.  I wanted to know what happened, why he didn't keep in contact, because he said he wanted a long term relationship with me and even told me he loved me.  Well, when a man tells you those kind of things you get attached, want more communication.  I wondered where's the communication after days of not hearing from him?  I would have understood if he would have told me ahead of time where he was going but I had no idea he went hunting or was out of town.  I just thought he was neglecting me because he was not texting, calling or emailing me.  Wow, I was deceived by him, I don't think he wanted a commitment.  That's OK, I guess he wasn't the man for me.  I can move on!  But now I feel like I will never meet a decent, caring, Christian man?  I know God has a plan but I sure wish it would happen soon because I'm not getting any younger, lol!  Good luck to you Lynnette in finding that special guy.  :)

 

There has been no recent activity on this communication.  I'm hoping someone is still out there:) I was widowed in 2000 after almost 15 years of marriage to a good, Godly man.  In 2007, I was remarried to a "Christian" man I met on one of the dating sites.  It was a disaster from the beginning.  I have felt so ashamed for having gotten divorced because I do not "believe" in divorce. My parents were divorced when I was 2 and I always said I would "never" get divorced.  It's true, we should never say "never". 

In many ways, it was more difficult than the death of my husband... the disappointment, etc.  It has been a long, struggle to forgive myself and let it go.  I know that God has forgiven me as I have confessed and prayed accordingly, but it is difficult to let it go, once and for all.  

I said all the above, to say this, I'm not sure the dating sites are the place to find a good, Godly man.  You definitely have to do so with prayer and much discernment... maybe with trembling and gnashing of teeth :)  Recently, I have been clinging to the verse about seeking God's kingdom first and "all these things" with be added unto you.. the desires of our heart.  God knows us best and knows our desires.. we need to not take things into our own hands as this only leads to heartache and disappointment.  God blessings to all...

To be honest with you IDK where you meet men...The online dateing sites are just pigs playing games.Its terrible the way they treay us on those sites. Ive tried to.They just want sex or money...Im single also 7 yrs and its very frustrating but what is one to do ???

Shelly,

I've found, when we are busy doing God's will as He has revealed to us, He will bring along exactly what we need.  Just trust Him to do what is best for you.. Pray specifically for your future spouse... what he should be like, etc. and trust God. I have also found, when I try to get ahead of God and do it "my own way", I end up in a miserable mess.  There are worse situations out there than being single... Prayers for you.

Shelly Hughes said:

To be honest with you IDK where you meet men...The online dateing sites are just pigs playing games.Its terrible the way they treay us on those sites. Ive tried to.They just want sex or money...Im single also 7 yrs and its very frustrating but what is one to do ???

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