I am the end of my rope trying to find a good Christian man.  Some men think woman can be controlled and be property to them.  They think submit to means to have total controll and possionWives submit to your husbands I think they some men think this mean to have controll over them.  Some also want a daily list of things you did and people you talked too and every conversation you had.  To me that is a insecure man that has jelliously issues.  I found this guy at church.  Then he tells me porn is ok to look at even though you are not married.  Job 31:1.  Say is wrong.  I called my pastor and he thinks this man is not right.  So do we have to protect ourselves by reading books on protecting out selves from any wrong moves with men.  Like reading Every Womans Battle or Every Man Battle.  Some men turn the bible around so it fit to makes there wrongs right.  Some men do not have the motivation to find anwsers in scripture on there on own. So if your not in the WORD OF GOD daily and pray and seek him.  To me you do know if when God is talking to  you through the Holy Spirit.  God Bless you all.  Since God is for me who can be againist me.

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Only comments i would like to make is that it not just difficult for u women. Im facing the same issues trying to deal with so called Christian women. The ones i have dealt with are so sweet and nice, then they start throwing things in like we should go to different bars and what i need is a snuggle partner at night. Ive dealt with the wrong type of women in my past, definitely don't want for my future. All i can say, is when, and if, gods ready for me to have any type of relationship, he will somehow lead us together. I know it's got to b difficult dealing with"Christian men", but i just wanted to let u know, ur definitely not alone

I totally agree & when you throw kids into the mix it makes it even harder.

Those so called "Christian men" love to quote wives submit, but, then conveniently forget it also says husband's love your wives as Christ loves the church. And wouldn't make the church do anything gross, vial, abhorrent or anything to diminish His wife's character

  Let me beging by giving you a little history on myself, I have only been married once it lasted for 23 years.  My wife decided to leave me and to be honest I didnot beg her to stay the legal battle lasted for a year I was so thankful when it was over.  I think some major issues that contributed to the divorce was money, my relationship with her family and my relationship with Jesus Christ.  At this point I wonder if I will or even want to remarry.  The blending of two lives is difficult, I read this on the net  the other day and liked it One Man One Woman One life.  After living alone for three years I have become comfortable with it easier to manage my own finances, starting new hobbies and most importantly growing in my faith with Jesus Christ.

  At my age of 55 things are a lot different than at 25  priorities are  different.  It is nice to meet a good Christian woman who has her act together ladies please don't take that the wrong way.  One problem I have is not stressing up front  that I may never remarry.  Well anyway before I drag on here let me say one last thing Character ladies donot I h repeat donot dishonor your Christian Character for any reason no matter how good the man may sound or seem to be Mr Right.  Hang in there have faith in God and improve yourself.

I know a lot people getting divorced after 20 plus years.  I have a co workers who is finding it hard to be single and this dating world is not easy.  I been in so many relationships because I beleive there is a person out there for me.  Also another person who is male asked me if I found some who reads scriptuture and prays with me each day.  One man in my who dating experince has read and prayed with me.  Finances are to deal with.  I do not understand how some people make large amounts of money and still lving paycheck to paycheck.  I make hardly anything.  I am seaching for a better job and stablility in my life.  God always finds ways to bless me.  I just know never say never.  I think you eat your words when we say that.  I beleive you will find someone. Just give it to the LORD.  May God bless you on this fine sunny day.  I have learned I have better days if I read the bible first and pray daily. 

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  Let me beging by giving you a little history on myself, I have only been married once it lasted for 23 years.  My wife decided to leave me and to be honest I didnot beg her to stay the legal battle lasted for a year I was so thankful when it was over.  I think some major issues that contributed to the divorce was money, my relationship with her family and my relationship with Jesus Christ.  At this point I wonder if I will or even want to remarry.  The blending of two lives is difficult, I read this on the net  the other day and liked it One Man One Woman One life.  After living alone for three years I have become comfortable with it easier to manage my own finances, starting new hobbies and most importantly growing in my faith with Jesus Christ.

  At my age of 55 things are a lot different than at 25  priorities are  different.  It is nice to meet a good Christian woman who has her act together ladies please don't take that the wrong way.  One problem I have is not stressing up front  that I may never remarry.  Well anyway before I drag on here let me say one last thing Character ladies donot I h repeat donot dishonor your Christian Character for any reason no matter how good the man may sound or seem to be Mr Right.  Hang in there have faith in God and improve yourself.

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