I will try to condense this story. I am so tired. My husband and I have been married 24 years. Together for 4 before. We have 4 kids-18,15,13 and 8. My husband battles bi-polar and along with Paxil,…Continue
" but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren,…"
I will try to condense this story. I am so tired. My husband and I have been married 24 years. Together for 4 before. We have 4 kids-18,15,13 and 8. My husband battles bi-polar and along with Paxil, self medicates with p*t, zanax. Totally sober he is constantly enraged. Has been like this forever. For whatever reason, I am tired of dealing with this. He has always called me names when arguing, has a bad temper. No, he doesn't hit me. He has in the past, but hasn't since 2007. This is wearing me…See More
"I am in a similar situation ladies. Shannon, I can relate to the longevity. My husband and I have been married for 24 years and together 4 before that. I am tired, just like you. I am exhausted with the cycle of abuse. The up and down. I am older…"
"You are at a loss, great!! God loves that. That means HE can do all of the work. Pray and give it up. From my own experience, God had to remove me, so he could work on my dad to bring him to Himself. I was actually in the way. No worries that…"
"Marisol, no matter WHAT God loves you. I am in a very similiar situation. Been married for 24 years. I am tired myself. It gets old. Remember, God loves your 18 year old MORE than you do, He will work in their life to bring them to himself.…"
"This is THE toughest thing for me to do. My husband is relies on me for most things and in many ways does not WANT the responsibility that Raymond speaks of. He used to go to church, lead youth, Sun. School teacher, etc. For 10 years now he has NO…"
"Hello, If your wife has just started counseling - that is a great thing. She has a lot to learn and so can you. When we have issues in life, we can choose to work on ourselves. When we do this it is bound to improve our relations with others. The…"
"Oh, also. Here is how my husband responded to the latest round with our son the one I was speaking of. "It is mankinds tendency to be evil". "David got teased from his brothers for fighting Goliath". "Joseph's…"
"Frances, Great question! My husband and I disagree about consequences. He says I am "too harsh and unloving" I say, good behavior gets rewarded and bad consequences. This is a HUGE problem in our marriage. She and he are alike and he takes…"
"My son is dealing with very damaging verbal asube, mainly name calling from his older sister. He is 12, she is 15. She is in general harsh to all of us, but in particular her brother lately.Her abuse is tearing him apart inside. Any ideas on…"